We all like the idea of winning. And we should. However, I believe that it should be less of 'being the best' and more of 'doing our best'. Small distinction. Being the best basically is doing more or better than others. Depending on the situation, we might not have to do much. However, doing our best requires a whole lot more. It requires us to push our boundaries of what our potential is.
I came across an op-ed in the New York Times today. I encourage you to read it here. Tom Friedman explains what he feels are some of our country's underlying reasons for falling behind. In general, as Americans, we can't imagine a world where America is not the leader. And I believe that many nations around the world hope/expect that the US remains the leader. Unfortunately, we (the country) don't exude the qualities of a leader.
I think that it is great that many more people today feel they have the opportunity to be on TV, be a celebrity, be a star. However, there is sacrifice and hard work which comes with that. Dedication and focus towards a goal is what keeps this nation strong. And, there is a lot of that around. But they are not whom we hear about everyday. Columns like Tom Friedman's shed light on the problems. What we need to do is start focusing on the solutions.
Don't misunderstand, I believe in 'play hard'. But the first part of that phrase is 'work hard'. Only I can evaluate whether I 'worked hard' and deserve to 'play hard'. I encourage you to look around and learn what sacrifices your friends/relatives are making. Don't judge - just listen. And if you don't have a passion or drive for something right now, maybe you'll find something along the way. Until then, as the Boy Scouts say, 'do your best' ... in everything you do.
Thanks for reading,
J^3
I found this video recently as well. Basically cuts to the chase what I say above. Enjoy:
ReplyDeletehttp://www.youtube.com/watch?v=3NQREuc7JX8